A Cuck’s Letter to editor

To the Editor,

I am writing to share an aspect of my private life that many may not understand, but which has been a deeply defining part of my relationship. My wife and I identify as a cuckold couple. For the last three years, I have been living as a caged cuck — a lifestyle of chastity and submission that we mutually agreed upon.

My wife has chosen a kind of “permanent bull” to avoid the emotional risks and anxieties of constantly meeting new people. This arrangement works for us because it gives stability and predictability. We have clear boundaries and rules. One of the most important rules is that I only get sex after her bull has been with her, and I must remain in chastity for at least 20 days a month.

Usually, I put on my cage three days before her scheduled dates, although sometimes these dates happen suddenly because of her high sexual demand. On average, her bull sees her 7–10 times a month. However, recently, as her bull has become busier with his business, his visits have reduced. This means more time for me in chastity with no release.

To keep up with our rule of 20 days of chastity, I’ve already spent the first 12 days of this month mostly unlocked (only two days caged). Now I have to stay locked for the rest of the month. My wife has even said she may not unlock me this month even if the bull does come, because, as she says, “rules are rules and chastity is more important than your release.”

I’ve asked her about changing bulls, but she has refused. I haven’t dared to ask why, because if the answer is that she likes or loves him, it will hurt too much. So, instead, I am choosing to embrace my chastity, to live by the structure we agreed to — even when it is difficult for me emotionally.

I’m sharing this not for sympathy but to shed light on how complicated, intimate, and, in its own way, beautiful a consensual cuckold lifestyle can be. It requires discipline, trust, and a willingness to surrender control. For some, that’s unimaginable. For me, it has become my reality.

Sincerely,
A Caged Cuck

Editor’s Reply

Dear Caged Cuck,

Thank you for trusting us with such an honest and vulnerable letter. What stands out most is the discipline you have already embraced — three years of living in chastity, surrendering to your wife’s structure, and committing to a rule that places her satisfaction first. That alone shows strength and dedication.

Your concern is natural: with your wife’s bull becoming busier, you fear that the balance between her pleasure and your release is slipping even further out of reach. Yet, the truth is, in a cuckold lifestyle, her rules and her fulfillment are the foundation. Chastity is not meant to guarantee release, it is meant to remind you of your role. The fact that your wife has emphasized that “rules are rules” shows her clarity and leadership — and it’s wise of you to respect that.

Changing the bull may feel like a solution, but it risks disrupting the stability she values. If she is content, that should be your guiding point. Your task is not to measure your own release but to honor the chastity itself as your gift to her. Each locked day is not just waiting — it is active devotion, a way of saying, “I put you first.”

My advice: stop counting the days with anxiety. Instead, embrace the cage as part of your identity. Release may come — or it may not. What matters is that you live fully in the role you both agreed upon: her loyal, caged cuck. The more you lean into chastity as a lifestyle rather than a countdown, the more peace and fulfillment you will find.

In short: trust her rules, trust her choice of bull, and trust that chastity itself is your true pleasure.

— The Editor